Congratulations lucky lady – wasn’t ladies’ night live fun? I’m sure you are excited to discover all of the pleasure your new toys have to offer, but before you dive headfirst into play, I’m here to give you some of Mimi’s Top Tips to ensure you get the best bang for your buck! 

Enhancing Your Play 

Whether you received one of our vibrators, dildos, or anal toys, I always recommend investing in a personal lubricant (that’s lube for short!) to not only enhance your sexual experience but to reduce any friction between your skin and your new toy. 

But what is lube I hear you say? It is a specially formulated gel or liquid, designed to be used in your most intimate areas to increase moisture, making your play more comfortable. As arousal increases our bodies will produce natural lubrication, the amount our bodies can produce will vary throughout our lives which is completely normal. Lube, however, provides a helping hand in ensuring that whether dryness is a problem for you or not, you can still not only enjoy the experience but heighten the sensations as well. 

Now lube is not a one size fits all product, and you should choose the most appropriate product for you. To help I have broken the various categories down for you:

  1. Water-Based lubes are a lightweight formula that’s non-sticky and easy to clean up once you have finished. They are safe to use with toys and often the best choice for those with sensitive skin, but they do absorb into the skin faster and wash off quickly in the shower (especially important if this is where you are choosing to play), so bear this in mind when making your decision. 
  2. Silicone-Based lubes are formulated to be much longer-lasting and are a much better option if you like to experiment in the shower! As silicone-based lubes are much thicker in consistency they are the best choice for Anal play. The walls of the anus are much thinner than the vagina, therefore it is important to maximize moisture to avoid any uncomfortable tears to the skin. However, you should not use a silicone-based lube with a silicone toy as the material will gradually breakdown over time. 
  3. Oil-Based lubes are again, thicker than water-based products and an excellent choice for external sexual play like sensual massages. They can be used for penetrative activity, but the product build-up that occurs with oil-based lubes may lead to irritation, so be careful if you are sensitive. I also do not recommend using these lubes with latex toys or condoms, as they cause the material to deteriorate – so best to avoid any unwanted surprises! 

Of course, if adding moisture is not your only goal, there are a range of products specially created to add stimulating sensations to your play. From toe-curling tingle lubes, wonderfully erotic warming lubes, and a variety of tongue tantalizing flavored lubes. Whether playing solo or with a partner, have fun exploring all the excitement the world of lube has to offer! 

Cleaning and Storing Your Toys

Once you have finished discovering all the delights your new toys have to offer, you must give them a good cleaning. I know that while laying there in orgasmic bliss this may not be your first priority, but it is essential, so as soon as your body returns to normality here’s what to do and why. 

As tiresome as it sounds, cleaning your sex toys before and after every use is important to help prevent infection. A little wash of your toys can go a long way towards keeping your downstairs happy and healthy. You can use a mild unscented antibacterial soap with water to give them a gentle clean, being careful not to submerge toys that aren’t designed to be used in water. Just ensure that you thoroughly dry your toy after cleaning, as bacteria can thrive in damp conditions.

The vagina has a natural pH balance and relies on certain good bacteria and fungi to keep its environment healthy. Unfortunately for some of us, the ingredients in selected soaps can send that balance off-kilter. If you are prone to infections or simply don’t want the hassle of washing and drying your toys at the sink, specially formulated toy cleaners may be a better solution for you. These are an easy and perfectly safe way to make sure your toys are squeaky clean, not to mention a great way to avoid any inadvertent water damage to your favorite vibrator! 

Does that still sound like a lot of effort? Wish there was a shortcut? Well, there is! Pouches with a built-in sterilizer are a great solution and can kill up to 99.9% of germs with just the click of a button. Using UV light technology, these nifty gadgets are proven to eliminate various pathogens, bacterial propagules, spores, fungi, and viruses that lead to STIs. Powered by USB, it is simple and discreet, perfect for storing as well as cleaning! 

Having gone to the effort of making sure your toys are as sparkling as the day you received them, do not let it go to waste by not storing them correctly. Bacteria and fungi can still build-up dependent on your choice of storage location – so make sure you keep them somewhere clean. Anti-Bacterial toy bags are a fab option and come in a range of sizes, using Bioshield 75, a fancy protective barrier that stops the growth of any nasties that cause infection. You can’t get cleaner than that right? 

If you prefer a stylish design that could easily be confused with a makeup bag, silicone or leather storage bags can be wiped clean and have a luxurious water-resistant lining for hygienic storage. Big enough to store your favorite toy, charger, and bottle of lube they are perfect for travel and can be squished right into your overnight bag. It zip locks, so with just the addition of a padlock, you can make it completely secure from prying eyes. Don’t want to risk losing the key or just want something a bit more robust? Lockable cases or boxes are secured with a combination lock that you set yourself. With a sturdy exterior and finished off in either simple or beautiful patterned designs there are options to suit your personal taste. 

Whatever your preference we have the perfect cleaning and storage solution. Now I have passed on my wisdom, the time has come for you to explore all your new toys have to offer. Have fun and remember to join me for my next Ladies Night Live to discover more delights that you never would have imagined trying before!